How many times have you been told all the things you "can't" do? If you are like the rest of us, you probably can't even keep count. In fact, pun intended, statistics show us that the average young person has been told "No, you can't" over 150,000 times by the time they reach the age of 17. That is an average of more than 24 times every single day of their life from the time they are born. The same study shows that the average young person has heard "Yes, you can" only about 5000 times during that same period. That is less than once per day. This barrage of negative feedback has a "cause and effect" that leads so many to accept the facts said or even assumed about them and the circumstances in their life. The problem with always focusing on the facts is that this mentality leads to a self-limiting belief system that keeps you from being able to achieve your full potential. Let's take a look at both....
